My partner has erectile dysfunction - how can I help?

One of the most common problems for men is impotence or erectile dysfunction. It is estimated that 25% of men are unable to achieve and/or maintain an erection that allows for repeated and sustained satisfying sexual activity.

It is a condition that affects not only the patient but also the couple, sometimes causing or aggravating conflicts and even separations. The important thing is that there are solutions and, fortunately, the taboos and barriers that prevented patients from seeking help are falling.

Why is it important to detect and treat impotence?

Among other reasons, because it is a general health problem. We now know that the origin of erectal dysfuncion is usually vascular and that impotence may be the first manifestation of an unknown cardiovascular disease.

Patients with cardiovascular risk factors such as smoking, lack of exercise, obesity, high cholesterol and triglyceride levels, diabetes, among others, have a higher risk of developing erectile dysfunction and good control can prevent or delay its onset.

Is erectile dysfunction psychological or not?

Classically, it is thought to be. In reality, although it has an organic origin, secondary psychological factors such as stress, anxiety, guilt, depression, low self-esteem and especially fear of failure contribute to it and can exacerbate and perpetuate erectile dysfunction.

What can I do to help my partner?

First, try to change some of the habits and cardiovascular risk factors that are important not only for the treatment of impotence but also for the patient's overall health. The role of the couple is crucial in achieving this goal, as in many cases these are common factors.

The support of the couple, for example in stopping smoking, exercising, reducing the consumption of alcohol and fat, is essential not only to improve the erection, but especially to prevent future deterioration and benefit the cardiovascular and general health of the patients.

Are erectile dysfunction pills safe?

The answer is a resounding YES. They are only contraindicated in very specific circumstances and are perfectly safe when prescribed under medical supervision. An example of one of the effective erectile dysfunction pill is Kamagra.

In addition, the urologist will recommend the appropriate pill and dosage in each individual case to achieve satisfactory sexual relations for both the patient and his or her partner.

If pills are not effective, are there other treatments?

If oral treatment does not work or is contraindicated, there are alternatives such as topical treatment or intra-abdominal injections of alprostadil, others more recent such as shock waves and, finally, penile prostheses. A proper urological evaluation is necessary to determine the most appropriate treatment in each case.

Erectile dysfunction is a physical problem that affects more than just men. Your support is essential for a condition that has a solution.